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Jul 10, 2013

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez known as Bennifer

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez known as Bennifer

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez known as Bennifer - Former pairing Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez incited unprecedented media attention for an American modern-day supercouple during their 2002-2004 courtship. The two were referred to as the first superstar couple of the Internet age, and the pairing's popularity resulted in their being known by the portmanteau "Bennifer" (for Ben and Jennifer) to the media, as well as to fans using the name combination. 

The term Bennifer itself became popular, and was eventually entered into urban dictionaries or neologism dictionaries as notable, and the name blend started the trend of other celebrity couples being referred to by the combination of each other's first names. The pairing eventually succumbed to overexposure, however, which caused public interest in their romance to result in less admiration and negatively affected their careers.

Affleck stated:

    [The romance] was probably bad for my career. What happens is this sort of bleed-over from the tabloids across your movie work. You go to a movie, you only go once. But the tabloids and Internet are everywhere. You can really subsume the public image of somebody. I ended up in an unfortunate crosshair position where I was in a relationship and [the media] mostly lied and inflated a bunch of salacious stuff for the sake of selling magazines. And I paid a certain price for that. Then, in concert with some movies that didn’t work.

Jennifer Lopez‘s exceedingly kind words about Affleck…and their experience as a celebrity couple. “[Argo] was a great movie,” Lopez told Ellen DeGeneres today. “And, we got you know, a lot of like … They were really hard on us in the press when we dated back in the day. On movies and things like that. So it was a nice moment. It was nice to see him have that moment. I was really happy for him.” That is true. There is no arguing that Bennifer was tabloid fodder for years, but maybe it wasn’t entirely the medias fault.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez friends

While most celeb couples avoid each other like the plague after they split, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck join a line of celebs, including Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake, who remain buds.

The two, who have quite a lot of history together, have been cool with each other post breakup. 
 
They still exchange emails. In his October 2012 cover story in The Hollywood Reporter, Affleck dropped some pretty juicy deets about his current relationship with Lopez, who called off their wedding in Sept. 2003 before officially ending their engagement in Jan. 2004.

"We don't have the kind of relationship where she relies on me for advice, but we do have the kind of relationship where there'll be an e-mail saying, 'Oh, your movie looks great,'” he said. “I remember when she got American Idol. I said: 'This was really smart. Good luck.' I touch base. I respect her. I like her. She's put up with some stuff that was unfair in her life, and I'm really pleased to see her successful."